THE RESILIENCY PODCAST

The World’s Heaviest Ultra: Parker Fontecchio on Failure, Community, and Doing Hard Things for Veterans

Episode Summary

Parker Fontecchio is a CrossFit athlete/coach and founder of PF Fit, where he helps clients build strength, resilience, and community through purposeful training. Parker uses ultra-endurance feats to raise awareness for veterans’ mental health—including Everesting 29,032 ft by doing 2,296 gym-rope climbs (25h 40m), a 72-mile farmer carry around Lake Tahoe, and (next up, November 2025) pulling a 4,400-lb truck for 50 km.

Episode Notes

Guest links:

Coaching & programs: PF Fit – pf-fit.com

Instagram: @pfonnaaa

Timestamps:

00:00 Fear of failure, batting averages & why missing is built into mastery

00:47 Everesting explained—Marcus’s bike take vs. Parker’s rope plan

01:49 Rope Everesting: 2,296 climbs, 25h40m—why do it?

02:23 Choosing veterans’ mental health as the “why”

03:57 Awareness fatigue: why posts blur together

05:42 The power of one story (a mom’s hug that changed everything)

08:53 Creating “gravity wells” for attention with outrageous challenges

10:05 What actually moves people: stories > stats

12:28 “What can I do if I’m not an ultra-athlete?” Practical on-ramps

14:43 Awareness vs. communication: why feeling alone is the real risk

16:13 Trauma recovery = doing hard things together again

19:14 From anger fuel to community fuel: two very different outcomes

20:15 Performance goals vs. values-driven goals

22:16 Redefining success on event day (and after)

24:02 Using a little anger—without letting it drive the bus

25:50 Men, ego, and admitting failure

27:18 Reframing failure (lions miss most hunts; hitters miss most swings)

31:00 Share the first failure; grow as a group

32:17 Training mistake → tendonitis → smarter prep with PT

36:58 World’s Heaviest Ultra: specs & precedence

37:28 Event details: Nov 5–6, Firebird Motorsports Park, Chandler AZ

38:28 Contingencies, weather, and… hoping his Tacoma doesn’t break

39:16 Closeout & where to follow Parker / support the mission